Yes I'm a medium but I still feel grief, why wouldn't I? If I didn't feel grief how could I help others. One of my outlets has always been to write, I find it very healing. I was in so much sorrow for my darling dog who I had for 18 years nearly, he passed away only last month, it seems along time ago, I'm still waiting for his ashes. I grieve for his sweet nature and loving way and I felt so sad, so I wrote this.

Bailey Bear How I miss you breathing next to me,

Running and barking in your sleep,

No stiff limbs but the chasing that youth brings.

How I miss you looking at me with love and happiness as if you hadn't seen me for hours, when I was out of sight for moments only.

You taught me to live in the moment, to just keep going no matter how hard.

You brave and wonderful dog.

You loved and loved, you forgave immediately.

My darling Bailey how I miss you breathing next to me.

So I do understand, I do have empathy. None of us come here and get away with being pain free but I being me, a medium, can stay close to my loved ones to a degree.